Depressed Asperger's Thoughts and Whatever

Today was..... Surprisingly eventful and uneventful at the same time. So, I wake up to my mom telling me about 2 guys in a car chasing my grandma around, they even pulled by her in the traffic lights and motioned for her to get out of the car, she locked the doors jic they tried something. Unfortunately, my grandma is old and it's hard for her to do much, she didn't get the license plate numbers but she remembers the car, which my mom told me about but I had already forgotten 5 minutes later. 😅 I kind of got scared at first hearing this. But well, I do kickboxing, I have my hockey stick at the ready jic AND I don't go to bed until much much later/earlier. Which would turn off most people who would want to break into a house. So, yeah. Weird day overall. I don't know why but, I always feel cocky about such matters, even more when I have been taking kickboxing classes...... I'd probably lose the fight lol

So, late/early blogging again......... I got into this song through memes but I found myself relating to this song because I have been feeling really frustrated... I even kicked some furniture. Felt good to kick it but it's not like it's gonna change anything.

That's all for the report... I'm too tired for anything else because I haven't been getting any decent sleep for a long time... My therapist would be disappointed in me, ahah...

In a land far far away, somewhere I don't like to go: a Church I had to go attend my nephew's baptism, keeping family ties blah blah blah. All was good until we all go eat at a restaurant they've reserved and they're like: I just hung down my head in shame, I have no answers to give... They always put me on the spot and I hate it. I don't hate them, but it's really frustrating and it makes me feel worse about myself.

YAY Ok, so... it's peace for 2 weeks without them around! People must think I'm horrible but I'm just looking forward to no screaming/yelling. (︶ω︶) They also don't care about me anyway, they did a lot of bad things to me and my mom talked to them about my condition and they didn't care either. We've been trying to get them to go with us just once to an appointment with my therapist but they always have excuses because they don't care. My brother is the same. My mom says it's because he used to be shy but I don't know, he used to work where my old psychiatrist worked and I always begged him to meet him but he always refused to... he also once said he doesn't believe in things like depression. The only person that cares enough is my mom. And, even though my dad was never very present in my life, he went to some appointments with me. I know he loved me and he wanted me to be happy. Now I only have my mom and internet friend...

It's probably just part of going to bed late. I'm just feeling like a potato, a very sad melting potato. Why do I keep doing the same mistakes. Bad potato! (me)

Which is pretty normal for an Asperger's. These obsessions slow my life down, but... sometimes it proves useful. Less often than I'd like. And also makes my work rate slow, because I'll be obsessed looking for more reference material or w/e. I know it's crappy as hell but that's what I get for creating and publishing a blog post through my phone, lol. Also kudos to my friend that showed me the fastest way to grind all the cosmetics I love.

The muscle pain from kickboxing is kicking in. And it's supposed to be a hot day but I feel cold, really cold, but that's to be expected. Damn, why does that have to come with this condition?

I made it through. 🥊 Even though I won't have any vacation myself, ahah. The teacher asked us about vacation and when he asked me if I liked the beach, I responded: "I haven't had a vacation in more than 10 years." 🤷‍♀️

I'll admit when I was bored lying in bed I was thinking about my future, then I thought about this. Bartip D&D or w/e it can be called. I thought it was a fun way to tip bartenders. If they can solve the dungeon they get the 5€, if they can't and only get past the first monster they only get 1€. Amusing/creative answer the [boss] monster might decide to let them pass, correct answer is, well, correct and as such well deserved. Yeah, I got a few screws loose I guess.

Expectations and Pressure are not only exclusive to family, I had a lot of expectations for myself and find that I'm always pressuring myself. 5 Year old me would break into tears seeing me now.

"I wish I was strong enough to lift not one but both of us." "Some day I will be strong enough to lift not one but both of us." I was listening to this song, thought about making a post about it. Wonder if I'll ever be strong enough.

I totally don't want the time to pass. Makes me sad. I'm scared of getting older. At this point what gets me to live is Visual Novels, GxG ones, I hate VNs like the Sakura ones, just about "carnal desires" and nothing else, these kind of VNs are the worst I have ever played. The characters are plain in personality, the plots are boring and it just makes me sad most of the GxG VNs are like that. It seems there's lots of good Kinetic VNs GxG but I like having choices. A lot of times it's a struggle finding VNs, especially since I have no money so most of the times I play the free ones or play them cracked. I know it's horrible to not support the devs but I don't have the money for such spending... They make me feel loved and in love, the purest kind. How could I not love them? It's sad they're not real. I'm very lonely, but that loneliness fades at least for a short while, while reading the VNs. What a sad existence...

My house is in renovations, the noise is crazy for me. It amps up all the bad things. I don't like being like this, I'm rude to everyone around and just want to be left alone.

What do other people do when bored? I have a lot of stuff but no motivation at all for anything. 🤷‍♀️ I tried to collect only the things I was missing but the hole in my heart just kept getting bigger.

Thus I write here something. I just spent my day depressed not doing anything. All I did was stare at my screen and try to look for something to do. To no avail because I've grown bored or don't have the energy/motivation to play a game. Yep, I do this all day...... more often than not, it's not a Lonely Sunday exclusive.

It's what I started calling every Sunday where I'm alone in my house. That part doesn't bother me as much as having to socialize with my late father's side of the family since our houses are connected and idk how to cook... I'm pretty useless and they'd get mad if I'm here alone and don't want to eat with them. So not much choice there. I'm also so sleepy... I haven't been getting any sleep because I don't want tomorrows to come. We just get older. And I'm just wasting away. "Manage me, I'm a mess."

I used to do no sports, lack of interest. But since I'm paranoid about going out at all that I don't go, I started taking kickboxing lessons. My therapist helped me start it, no one had been able to convince taking up a sport before. Although I like it, there's a lot I dislike about it. And my only reason to go is to prove my grandma and aunt wrong. I wouldn't say I'm forcing myself, it's just some parts about it that I don't like and it kind of has to do with the people there, the first time I went there I was kinda freaked out... my mom helped me talk to the coach that this was for therapy and stuff and since I take meds, my reflexes are slower than the average person, idc if he understood that though. At first I distanced myself from the people but now I'm pretty used to them - except for this one kid that comes at me when sparring like we were in a real match. I wish I didn't have to take meds so I could keep up, ahah. So...

I realized that... Some stuff I might be sharp at, others might be oblivious. And vice versa. That's why it's best to always be honest. But, isn't that pretty obvious in itself? It seems like it, but it's not.

I was bored. When I'm bored I have to be doing something, or I'll become depressed. Luckily I was reminded of the good ol' Flash games!

I went to bed at 4AM and couldn't fall asleep until 6~7AM. Not the first time, I always feel like a corpse the morning after. But, just 1 COFFEE! Wakes me up and keeps me functional.